1/12/08

Trust Me on the Sunscreen!

I love this lyrics...


Everybody's Free ( To Wear Sunscreen )
( Baz Luhrmann )

Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of 99' Wear Sunscreen!
f I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proven by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.


Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they fail you. But trust me in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagined.

Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never cross your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing everyday that scares you.

Sing!


Don't be reckless w/ other people's hearts. & Don't put up w/ people who are reckless w/ yours.

Floss!

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes your behind. The race is long. And at the end, it's only w/ yourself.

Remember compliments, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch!

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do w/ your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do w/ their lives. Some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.


Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody elses.

Enjoy your body, Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance!

Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room. Read the directions even if you don't follow them. Don't read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're the only link to your past and the people most likely to stick w/ you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but w/ a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle. Because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel!

Accept certain inalienable truths. Prices will rise, Politicians will philander, You too will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders. Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much w/ your hair. Or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient w/ those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than what it's worth.

But trust me on the "Sunscreen"!

Shivering

Is it cold over there?

As I am freezing while I'm typing this.

12/26/07

New Year's Day is just around the corner. I do wish all of you a happy new year and a prosperous one as well. This has been a great journey for me and I know that this is only the beginning for the new me.

Year after year after year, I always make these silly grandiose (and often unrealistic) plans for myself. Sure it doesn't hurt to dream however, I'm one of those people who always plan for things yet nothing ever happens due to so many reasons under the sun. Lack of motivation is one thing, and my dirty, dirty habit of procrastination is another.
I've had a whirlwind of a life alright with countless highs and lows but for the most part, none of my experiences were the result of a "master plan". You see, the more I spend time planning for something, the more it doesn't happen. Plans remain just as that -- plans.
I'm preferred being spontaneous. I like to do things on my own accord, when I want it etc. I take a lot of risks and I'm extremely fascinated with the unexpected and the unknown. Our lives are so fluid and all of our decisions and actions are influenced by so many things that we encounter on a daily basis.
I don't want to live my life with regrets. Regret that I didn't do this or I didn't do that because I got bogged down by a little "plan" I made earlier in the year. It's a very bold decision and there are consequences of course, but one thing I've learned over the years is to try to take responsibility for ALL of my actions.
I'm honestly happier living the way that it is now, take things as they come on a daily basis. If I make a mistake, I try to learn from them. If I make the same mistake over and over and over and over, well, clearly it's not a mistake, no? hehehe
Enough blather.
Instead of making a New Year resolution, I have a single resolution that I try my darn hardest to abide to all-year round. It's simple, really.
It's simple and it's not easy but hey, a girl's gotta do what she's got to do. Being a better person involves a lot of things but for the most part, instead of dwelling on the past, I live for the present, I embrace change and I look forward to the new and the future. Every day is a new day and there's always something new to learn, someone new to meet, something new to do, etc. I want to enrich my life with new experiences. Sure it won't happen simply by staying at home, or what have you in front of the computer the entire day in the office(hah!) but who said you won't learn anything online?
But yes, I definitely need to get out there more to improve my quality of life.
In any case, the statement says it all and I'll leave it up to you to define what a "better person" means.
That's my year-round resolution. What's yours?